His Bio
"Have you ever had a dream, Neo, that you were so sure was real? What if you were unable to wake from that dream? How would you know the difference between the dream world and the real world?" (The Matrix, 1999)
Exactly how do we know if this is the real world? Obviously that's the question, but even if I'm still "plugged" in - I do know this about Myself: I'm Me. A compilation of over 30 years of bio-chemical engineering. Whether I'm a copper-top or some Dominant male residing in the far western reaches of Colorado - is up for you to decide.
The Path hasn't always been so clear cut for me. I didn't meet Trinity yet - but any woman approaching me in a PVC, latex outfit will definitely get my attention any day of the week. Yes, I'm weak when it comes to my fetishes. I'll be the first to admit that. Anything from high heeled shoes (on my girl, not me of course), to hoods, bondage, to tight outfits, underwear and other assorted goodies basically make up my overall perviness.
It started out harmless, a Playboy magazine "hidden" in my parent's bedroom started the initial thoughts about bdsm. I loved the helplessness generated of the bound woman I saw in the movie advertisement. "A perv was born." As time grew, this idea also graduated to different levels. I found enormous pleasure in sensory deprivation and then I got a hold of my sadistic side. The entire bdsm realm was there before me. Like a kid in a candy store, I loved every bit of it.
Soon after getting the taste, I realized there was so much more. That's when I discovered D/s and M/s. Not only did I reach a conclusion several years ago that I can't go back to being a vanilla by-product, I resigned myself to wanting the ultimate: a lifestyle relationship. It became much deeper than a quest, but it brought me more at peace with who I am.
There's an epiphany that usually happens after the discovery of one's self. When they are no longer at war or feel incomplete. My personal conflict ended soon after my divorce when I made the step into the lifestyle on a full-time basis. Even though I had yearnings, desires, and what not for the previous 13 years of my existence. So in 1998 I took a chance and have been on this ride ever since.
I met danae through a friend of ours. At our friend's urging, she felt that we would make a pretty good match. An email was sent to danae in November 2002. From there, we went to phone calls and then we knew we had to meet someday. Little did anyone know how right our mutual friend was. So in the "balmy" month of February 2003, she flew out to be with me. Almost instantly, we both felt that this was the right thing for the both of us. She stayed a month with me before having to return back home.
As plain as day - I remember sitting at a local restaurant basically working through what it would take for her to be here. We hammered out an understanding, an agreement over a late afternoon lunch.
It was going to happen. We were both moving forward.
With fear, excitement, and anxiety - our Paths converged. I moved her out here and we've been enjoying our Journey ever since.
- Michael
Exactly how do we know if this is the real world? Obviously that's the question, but even if I'm still "plugged" in - I do know this about Myself: I'm Me. A compilation of over 30 years of bio-chemical engineering. Whether I'm a copper-top or some Dominant male residing in the far western reaches of Colorado - is up for you to decide.
The Path hasn't always been so clear cut for me. I didn't meet Trinity yet - but any woman approaching me in a PVC, latex outfit will definitely get my attention any day of the week. Yes, I'm weak when it comes to my fetishes. I'll be the first to admit that. Anything from high heeled shoes (on my girl, not me of course), to hoods, bondage, to tight outfits, underwear and other assorted goodies basically make up my overall perviness.
It started out harmless, a Playboy magazine "hidden" in my parent's bedroom started the initial thoughts about bdsm. I loved the helplessness generated of the bound woman I saw in the movie advertisement. "A perv was born." As time grew, this idea also graduated to different levels. I found enormous pleasure in sensory deprivation and then I got a hold of my sadistic side. The entire bdsm realm was there before me. Like a kid in a candy store, I loved every bit of it.
Soon after getting the taste, I realized there was so much more. That's when I discovered D/s and M/s. Not only did I reach a conclusion several years ago that I can't go back to being a vanilla by-product, I resigned myself to wanting the ultimate: a lifestyle relationship. It became much deeper than a quest, but it brought me more at peace with who I am.
There's an epiphany that usually happens after the discovery of one's self. When they are no longer at war or feel incomplete. My personal conflict ended soon after my divorce when I made the step into the lifestyle on a full-time basis. Even though I had yearnings, desires, and what not for the previous 13 years of my existence. So in 1998 I took a chance and have been on this ride ever since.
I met danae through a friend of ours. At our friend's urging, she felt that we would make a pretty good match. An email was sent to danae in November 2002. From there, we went to phone calls and then we knew we had to meet someday. Little did anyone know how right our mutual friend was. So in the "balmy" month of February 2003, she flew out to be with me. Almost instantly, we both felt that this was the right thing for the both of us. She stayed a month with me before having to return back home.
As plain as day - I remember sitting at a local restaurant basically working through what it would take for her to be here. We hammered out an understanding, an agreement over a late afternoon lunch.
It was going to happen. We were both moving forward.
With fear, excitement, and anxiety - our Paths converged. I moved her out here and we've been enjoying our Journey ever since.
- Michael
